I concluded last week's article by noting that
achieving the goal of a "Safe Environment" means that all Catholic
parishes, schools and institutions will in fact be - an-d
will be known to be - places where all people will be safe
from abuse of any and every kind - especially children, young
people and anyone else who might be particularly vulnerable to
abuse. How do we make that Safe Environment a reality? It' s going
to take some changes in thinking as well as some practical steps.
The first and necessary step is to reshape any
belief that Safe Environment measures should focus exclusively on
people who are or might be predators. Our commitment to prevention
leads us to quite the opposite emphasis: the
Diocese is requiring awareness training of all of
us - volunteers and
employees - so that we will all acquire the skills and develop the
vigilance that are needed. When we have those skills and that
vigilance, then the predators can be found out and kept out.
Another step is to change the thinking that Safe
Environment training should be required only of those people who
have direct contact with children as, for example, teachers,
catechists, baby sitters, etc. That thinking can also be expressed
in terms of the most-often-raised objection: why should
Eucharistic Ministers, Lectors, Ushers, Choir Members and other
such volunteers have to go through all this training and scrutiny?
It is both chilling and sobering to realize that
child molesters communicate via the internet to post information
on organizations and places where vigilance is low and the
pool of potential victims is high where "good hunting/fishing
spots" are available. If an exception is made for one or more
groups of volunteers because they don't seem to minister directly
to children, that fact will become known and communicated among
predators - and used by them; a weak point will be created in the
wall of protection and certainly, in time, exploited to gain
access to potential victims. Again, as an example: if the Diocese
were not to require the screening 'of Liturgical Ministers,
you can be sure that predators would use that knowledge and
volunteer for those kinds of ministries as a way of establishing a
presence and the appearance of trust within a parish and they are
willing to take years, if necessary, to do so.
Let's realize also that the creation of a Safe
Environment is more than just looking out for the stereotypical
leering weirdo in a trench coat who lurks at. school bus stops
(although just two weeks ago, . the Connecticut Post reported the arrest of an individual for suspicious loitering
around a school in a nearby town). Safe Environment awareness
includes sharing responsibility for the security of our buildings,
doors, windows, and parking lots; noticing and reporting people
who "don't belong" and so forth. Together we will lean much more
about this awareness in the training program to be described in
future columns. .
Whose responsibility is a Safe Environment?
Everyone's. Everyone's eyes and ears are the tools we
need: all employees, all volunteers, even those who don't appear
to have any regular contact with children, and even vendors and
contractors who have a regular presence on our property - all of
us share the responsibility for protecting our children.
Either we all take the lead in creating the safe
environment now, or together take the blame when some act of abuse
or misconduct happens in the future.
to be continued...
